Up to this point, I was on the sidelines. But now, looking on from my oh-so-objective hilltop, I will toss in my $.02, which, when you think about it, probably isn’t even worth that anymore.
There have been some interesting discussions going on over at Pastor Wilson’s blog regarding the issue of paedo-communion. This all apparently started in response to a relatively innocent CanonWired video about a child’s first communion. Pastor Wilson gave the kind of response I would expect (and am overjoyed to see): he did not state that there’s a black and white answer that must be hammered to the forehead of every Bible-thumping Calvinist; rather he explained how they administer the Lord’s Supper at Christ Church in Moscow. There is no law decreeing how this process should take place. It is not Wilson’s way or the highway, nor does he suggest that. In fact, his answer suggests the opposite, as well as his desire to prevent a controversy, which of course meant that one would surface. This really should not be a difficult issue, and is not one worth splitting hairs over. There’s just no need.
Let me speak plainly: the Gospel is good news, but we seem to be fond of missing the forest for the trees.
Let me speak more plainly: much of the elbow-throwing, theological bullying and bickering that happens so often in Reformed circles is unfruitful and unfortunately harmful to the body of Christ.
The Lord’s Supper is a joyous occasion, where after we as Christians have sat at the feet of the Word and received Godly instruction, we dine with the Word on the Word. We are all Christians, we are all at the table and we have all been welcomed to participate. The bread is broken and the wine flows freely… and we are filled. All of us.
The discussion at Blog and Mablog has appeared to revolve around whether or not it is appropriate to give your baptized infant a morsel of bread or a drop of wine before they can understand what is happening. Red herrings have been spotted recently, and as an observer you might get the feel that this debate is crucial to your 8-month old being able to survive in your Church.
But let’s think of it this way: when you sit down at the table as a family every night to eat dinner, and your 8-month old Johnny is awake and sitting happily in his baby seat, is he any less a participating member of your family because he isn’t partaking of the steak and potatoes? He will get there eventually, through a process that is called maturing. Every parent knows this, and knows that there’s no need for Johnny to taste the potatoes prematurely. The point is for Johnny to taste the potatoes at a point when he understands that there’s more to eating than just Mommy’s milk. Other people are eating other stuff, and Johnny will catch on. Whether he reaches for the potatoes or you give him a crumb really isn’t the point. The point is that when that moment happens, he begins that important transitional process, and you teach him along the way.
The same applies to the Lord’s Supper. Johnny has been washed by the water, he has been given the sign of the covenant, and he is a member of the Church just as much as you are. Just he’s as much a Smith as you are. The debate should not be whether you should start shoving the bread down little Johnny’s throat prematurely or wait until Johnny starts reaching for the plate every Sunday as it’s passed along. Johnny is a member of the body and the rewards that come with being a covenant member apply to him, too. The debate is not over that.
Partaking of the Lord’s Supper as an infant/child is not an issue of when, but how. How you begin that transition is key, and this is what Pastor Wilson has been deliberately pointing out – he’s concerned with the attitude of the parent, not the child. Just because Johnny has 2nd amendment rights doesn’t mean you give him a .22 for his first birthday. Pay attention to the attentiveness of your child and when he is ready, joyfully show him and give him the rewards of the covenant. It is all good. It is all Gospel.